Wednesday, August 20, 2014

Alexis Michelle Hager


She's here!  Lexi was born on August 5, 2014 at 0546
7 lbs 0 oz; 19.75 inches long

Alexis' birth story:
Starting early Monday morning (4 Aug), I started having contractions. I knew I had an appointment scheduled with my OB at 1130 so I decided to wait until then to have her check me. I had made some progress from the week before but I was only 2 cm dilated. So we went home and I took a long walk on the treadmill and then Michael made the infamous Scalini's eggplant parmesan that was supposed to induce labor. It wasn't an hour after eating (approximately 830pm) that my contractions kicked into high gear and I felt some pain! The contractions eventually got to be about 15 minutes apart and were strong by 1030pm. We knew we didn't want to have the baby on I-95 so we headed to Ft. Belvoir (about a 45 minute drive). When I got there I was checked and I was still only 2 cm dilated. Ugh. So they sent me downstairs to walk for a couple of hours. I spent the two hours walking the first floor and having contractions every 2-3 minutes that almost sent me to the floor in pain - thank goodness for the wall railing that helped me breathe through them! After the excruciating walking, I went back up and was checked again. I was completely effaced, but still only 2 cm! They knew I was making progress so they offered to let me walk some more and see if my body would respond, or take some medicine to help dull the contractions and let my body work on its own. I opted for the drugs. They put me in a room and the medicine put me almost to sleep, but when the contractions came I started screaming again :/ No dulling effect at all! They thought my amniotic fluid was low and when they came to check it they found that my water had broken (around 0400 on 5 Aug). Because my water had broke they went ahead and formally admitted me and I was able to ask for the epidural (aaahhhh ... finally!). I had to bear through the pain to get the epidural in (didn't have to do that with Caleb and I have never felt such pain in my life and had to sit completely still)! The epidural was in by 0430 and when it kicked in both Michael and I thought we'd catch a couple hours of sleep before the big show. The nurse came in to check me at 0515 and I had gone from 2 cm dilated to 9 cm dilated! No rest for the weary! By the time they got the nurses, residents and midwife in there I was fully dilated and they were telling me it was time to push! I pushed from 0530 to 0546 when little Lexi came out to meet us! I felt nothing (even less than with Caleb) and it was glorious - thank GOD for epidurals! We were able to stay in the room until I had gotten the feeling back in my legs and was able to walk (Balboa kicked us out about an hour after delivery!), and then we were moved to a fantastic recovery room for the next 2 days. My parents brought Caleb in to meet his new baby sister on Wednesday and he was a little apprehensive at first, but he then started to warm up to her by the time it was about to leave - he even went and got her bink and lovey out of the bag to give to her when she started to cry! She has been the BEST baby from the first night she was in this world! She nurses well, sleeps even better and loves to look around with her big blue eyes when she is awake. She had a little bit of jaundice by day 2, but with great nursing and moving stuff through her system she was able to kick it naturally in 3 days!
Our little Angel:

She was born at 40+2 weeks!



Michael making the eggplant parmesan:

Making her debut at 0546!


Daddy getting to hold Lexi's hand for the first time:






Official first weighing!

Daddy and his little girl:


First bath!

Getting her first swaddle:

...lots of naps with Daddy!

Snuggles with Mama:




Getting to meet Yaya for the first time!

Best big brother ever!

Meeting Papi for the first time!


Snuggles with Daddy (it was tough being away from him for the first time ever!):

Caleb warming up to Lexi:




He went and pulled her lovey and bink out of the bag for her when she was crying :)



Kisses for his little sister!

Our family of four!


Some sunshine time to help with a small amount of jaundice:

My baby girl :)

Her placard on her bassinet:

Getting ready to go home!


All snuggled in!


Balloons to welcome Lexi home for the first time ever!

We can't believe she is here! What an amazing miracle ... so thankful for a smooth labor and delivery and a perfect little girl!

Sunday, August 17, 2014

July 2014

The month of July started off great with Michael's promotion, but went downhill quickly with yet another respiratory infection for Caleb. Before he got sick, he was was all smiles though! He has expounded upon his vocabulary and likes his "yellow dar", "black dar", and his yellow ball. He loves to sing songs that he makes up (especially at the dinner table) and they usually involve mama-gaggy-and me ... he also loves to help with "puppy and kitty" (getting their dishes and giving them dry food), and was excited to have "mo wa-wa" (swim lessons). Unfortunately, he got sick so he was only able to make 2 of the lessons :/
Cheesin' it up:
Giving baby girl kisses:
Smiles with Mama:
One of the two swim lessons :)
...and sick.
Trying to eat the mist from the diffuser:
Snuggling in bed with Mommy and Daddy early one morning when he couldn't sleep:
Once he got better we went down to Fredericksburg to Eileen's cafe for some breakfast!


Who needs pants to ride a scooter. Not this guy.

I finally got out the little pool on a hot day and he got to play with the hose for the first time:





36 weeks!


Not amused.

Two of two swim lessons (flirting with the girl next to him) :)

Kicking while on the ducky:

Sweet Piggy (such a trooper)!

Hamming it up at the park swings on base!


Seriously. No paparazzi!

More swings on base:

Such a helper - he rolled our grocery basket the entire time in the commissary!


37 weeks!

Snuggles on the couch:
Waking up from his nap :)
Hanging out with Mama in the garage because she is uber preggo:

Caleb had been blinking a whole lot so we got his eyes checked out - they dilated his eyes so he got to wear these sweet shades!


We celebrated 10 years of marriage!
... and Michael surprised me with some new diamonds :)
... our entire wedding party :)

38 weeks!


After having a sweet treat at DQ!

Yaya and Papi got here (in case baby girl came early) and Caleb was in hog heaven with all the snuggles and attention!
Sharing some spaghetti with Yaya:

Caleb played LOTS of tractor racing with Papi:

They even built a tunnel to drive the tractors through:

Blocks with Yaya:

Swinging on the tire swing:
Riding scooters and bikes:
Afternoon snacks/snuggles with Yaya:
I lost sight of my thighs :/ and baby girl liked to contort my belly from one side to the other:
Morning playtime down in the basement:
Riding the scooter with Yaya and Sasha:

39 weeks!


Lots of coloring and stickers with Papi:


We even walked down to the park (trying to induce labor!) and the slide was a little hot for Papi!

Caleb wouldn't let anyone else pull the wagon back ...

We looked like the meanest parents ever making the 2 year old pull his own wagon back to the house. He wouldn't let anyone near it though!

Pulling the wagon wore him out and he got (yet again) ... another respiratory infection. Ugh.

Still no baby girl.